Don’t expect a 10/10 because there is no such thing
Some smoke and drink, some don’t know how to dress well, some are suffering one ailment or the other, some are yet to figure out their career, some are rich but also crying, some are not mature enough yet, some are still struggling financially. Some are short-tempered
When the honeymoon phase passes, can you deal with the flaws?
Do this love thing with your eyes open, don’t fall for a woman because she’s got big boobs or ass. Remember that beyond that fat around her chest and ass, there are flaws so take time to get to know someone before you dive in.
Chose what is right for you.
I am sending you love and light.