Why are you in this dilemma?

Picture this; you are in a relationship but you have this attractive colleague at work that you are very cozy with and recently you find yourself thinking about him/her.
What would you do? You think about this person at home and your partner is right there.

If this is happening to you, chances are that something is missing in your relationship.
There is no easy way to handle this because someone will definitely get hurt.

You have to make a choice
Take time to assess what you are feeling and figure out what you’re feeling and why, you’ll have to decide whether you’re going to remain with your partner or pursue your new interest.
However, if you decide to stay then cut things off with the other person. stop getting too close to him/her because that’s what got you in this situation in the first place.
It’s up to you to decide which path you want to take. Remember, being true to one’s heart is of utmost importance.

Be honest with your partner
They deserve to know why you’ve been distant lately but before then go somewhere to clear your mind. Just imagine how your life will turn with each Which of them will you be happier with?
When you figure this out, have a heart to heart with your partner.
If your partner is very jealousy be very choosy with your words.

Consider the feelings of your partner
He/she would want to know what they can do to improve things. Why they are not good enough for you? Keep in mind that this could easily cause them pain.

Here’s my personal advice; if you find yourself falling for other people while in a relationship and this has happened more than once then you need to be emotionally mature to date anyone at all.

“One minute you like this person, the next the like another” We all want someone who will commit to us.

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